Someday maybe we'll get around the idea that it is morally laudable to be monogamous, and reprehensible to be otherwise. Society is democratic in that the majority idea rules. I would be a fool to fight your beliefs, but I don't have to subscribe to them. Rather than try to convert my spouse, I will omit the information, but I think you should calm down, this isn't a personal attack on you and you are behaving as though it is.