evil_robots:

To be clear - I actually was no longer responding to you directly after the Billy Ocean comment. I didn't mean to comminicate as though you and only you were coming across as bitter. Apologies on if it did.

To the crux - it appears that the LW's fiancee is also trustworthy - as she isn't accusing him of anything. She isn't suspicious of him, just looking for reinforcement that telling him to cut off the terminal patient was cool. As someone with a trustworthy guy - you could offer some pointers on how your guy lets the actress and models down gently. (You have to agree - telling someone on death's door that it isn't cool to tell you that they are fantazing about you would be a tough assignment (even though you're in the right.))

Oh, okay. I thought you were referring to me, heh heh. Well, the only problem I have with the guy is not setting the boundaries. It is a tough job to give a dying woman the toss, but just for arguement's sake, what if she does want to sleep with him, before she goes to sweet bye and bye. He would still have to tell her "no" after she'd grown so attached to him. After those few drinks and more interaction, the woman's attachment would surely grow. Going by me, I thought my boyfriend was adorable when I met him, but my attraction to him grew after we spent time together.

Now the woman isn't suspicious of him now, but she did ask him to cease all correspondence with her. We don't know if the man actually stopped the correspondence or not. She could be suspicious of him even though she said she isn't. Otherwise, why ask him to stop all correspondence.