Terrils:

patcelrs:

What do you consider personal and none of your business? My feeling is if my husband and I share finances - which we do - what could possibly be "none of my business" in his life.

And as long as your husband is comfortable having absolutely NO privacy whatsoever in his life, there's nothing wrong with that. Whatever works for each couple.

privacy isn't necessarily the issue. my fiance and I both have privacy whenever we want it- but there's very little that either of us would consider "not the other's business". I guess we're just close like that.