Seriously, I think the girl (while she should not have snooped) has a right to be pissed at the text. It was inappropriate - HOWEVER - everyone seems to be working of the notion that the "dying" woman is in fact terminally ill - and that she knows the "soon to be husband" has told her he is engaged.

The fault - in the end - most likely is with the man on this one. This man might love being in a position of emotional "power" with people who "need" him - or he could be lying to his fiance about why he hangs out with this or that person.

Seriously - While appologizing to her fiance for snooping is the right thing to do - I think there are bigger issues to take into consideration than just to appologize and say "I trust you". She needs to woMAN-up and take note that the man she thinks she loves could be a creep and she needs to realize he is not the only one out there.

I vote she appologize - and then discuss the situation - settle it/get to the bottom of it - then see how things go from there. 2 strikes your out.