Dear First Love,

Read what you wrote as if someone else wrote it. What would be your advice to this person? Isn't this person worth a million more than what this uncaring "boyfriend" shows or gives her? Doesn't she deserve someone to really love her back or return to her the affection she gives him by doing small favors for her too? Should she continue to have sex with a guy who may think sex is love? Is sex love? No it isn't. Safe sexual gratification with someone who is on the same level as you such as a "friend with benefits" can be fun.. Caring about someone who doesn't care about you but wants the sexual favors without the heartfelt attachments is going to get YOU hurt. How do I know? Been there, done that. You are worth a million more than you give yourself credit.