Okay CRUSHER (nice name)

No stalkers her thank you! Before you sleep with her you could get a VD test together and if it is clear (assuming your not a virgin, but I am not interested in your story,) then great.

Ask her to share her story, if there are things that are NOYB, and not part of her life anymore then if you care for her you will realize it isn't for you to know, if you can't feel if you like and trust someone on just this and you feel that you want to interrogate her, then your issues are bigger than hers and she should RUN FOR HER LIFE!!!!!