PhysicsGirl:

Had you simply stuck with your question and not started implying that there was one right way, I would have had patience for the rest of your posts. As a newbie, you don't have any money in my earned patience bank and so I responded.

Actually, I'm NOT a newbie and how cuntish of you to be rude and vile to someone you thought as a newbie. And for your information, I have witnessed far too many women losing their composure when they see their man doing the same thing they do when he's not around.