Where I live, it's the women with honking rocks you see acting a fool. Also, I was not the one referencing the potential for rape, it hadn't even occurred to me.:) In fact, I'm the one who points out the hotties in daisy dukes to the hub.

For me, I just don't see how someone who is happily married can justify having other men buy drinks for them, flirting (other than casually like friends), or dancing with them. It's not in my realm. My husband does not buy drinks for women he does not know nor does he dance with them. We just agree that's past our personal line of what we find respectful.

But, you did answer the question I asked instead of pussyfoot around it.:) thank you. I've just known far too many stupid c**ts who act like trash when their man isn't around, but flip out if they catch him behaving like they do when he's not around. Disrespectful double standard, you know. One can not behave a certain way and demand the partner does not behave in kind.