And I got dragged out before I could tell the wife...... Every who knows me knows if asked a direct question, I will answer with the blunt truth. So, when my husband's co-worker's wife asked me at a Christmas party if I knew if her husband was cheating, my husband whisked me away from her. See, we had seen the cheating bastard going into a model apartment on several occasions with the apt manager, and both staying for hours.... Plus, my husband overheard a conversation between the two that left no question.

At the same time, I kept my mouth shut around my bil's gfs when I knew he was cheating on them. But, I also knew they'd be replaced before long anyway. And my loyalty isn't to them, it's to him. Besides, he had a penchant for the bitchy high maintenance types I could not stand. He's since gotten older and much wiser, but alas is still single.....