For all you women who are in committed relationships and have those girls' nights out where you flirt and dance outrageously with strange men, I've got questions:
How would your SO feel if they walked into the same bar and saw your behavior? Or how would you feel if you walked into a bar and saw your SO engaged in the very same behavior? What if you (or the SO) heard about such behavior through others?
See, my husband and I have a rule: Never do or say anything that would hurt the other or you would not want to catch them doing. Ergo, when I go out with the girls, I do NOT flirt with strange men much less accept drinks from them or dance with them. I'm not there to hang out with strange men, I'm there to play with my girls.:) I refuse to debase myself, my husband, my family, or my marriage by behaving like common trailer trash. I'm better than that, and my husband deserves a wife that comports herself as a lady at all times. I will not have him looking the fool in anyone's eyes.