My irritation stemmed more from her description of the cut of the dress, rather than the color.

I dont know why mothers of the bride are expected to wear long gown things or suits, in pastels or neutral earth tones, but its ridiculous! My mom's dress for my wedding is just below the knee, has a somewhat deep v-neck and has tank style straps. Its teal with a black chiffon overlap Is it a mother of the bride type look? No way!! But does my mom look elegant, beautiful and yes, even sexy in it? Definately. And why shouldnt she?

What is the deal with brides needing to make sure that mothers and mothers-inl-aw look "matronly"?