I would just like to hear a story from a mom who has actually been demonized for either decision. At home and with family/friends, I nursed my babies; in public, sometimes I bottle-fed expressed milk/sometimes I breastfed: I pumped at work - and never heard a word of judgment, anywhere, from anyone (and I live in a mid-size southern town). Not one mom-friend of mine has ever mentioned being harassed, no matter what her feeding choice. It seems like this topic has been blown way out of proportion.