dizzyabbyandsarasmommy:

Yes and her displeasure gives her every right in the world to behave like a grouchy two year old child...oh wait NOPE. She could at least show the common courtesy of treating them like casual aquaintances...you know she could be polite.... especially to the poor kid COME ON!!!

So you have someone that you don't like at all and you tell them in no uncertain terms that you don't want anything to do with them. They show up at your house with another friend and you will treat them like a casual acquaintance?? That would give them the impression that everything was okay with them being there. The new wife is the rude one.

Sounds like the kid is less mentally challenged than the new wife.