I definitely agree. I know really want to know what the mother was thinking when she took her young son to this woman's house. The stepdaughter had previously proven that she was completely disinterested in her father's new family, so why place the little boy in a position where it's almost certain he's going to be rejected? Way to go, mother. Whether the stepdaughter has a personality disorder or not, the new wife needs to be the adult and let it go. Trying to force someone to like you and accept you almost never ends well.