Pretty darn close to next door. A 90 second car ride in bad weather, a less-than-ten-minute walk in good weather. One stop sign between home and mom.

As for feeding time, after six months that shifted to mostly me, with my wife feeding the boys before she went to work, when she got home, and at bedtime, but that was on top of me feeding them "real" (ugh) food. What an unholy mess *that* was... Anyway, for whatever reason, the children seem sufficiently "attached" to both of us...