Our four children were all breast fed, exclusively, for their first
six months of life, and continued to nurse past the one year mark. One
weaned around 14 months and another around 18, with the others falling
in between.
I was the main supporter of this policy, while my
wife was the main implementer. If she had a conference to attend, she
expressed-- for weeks-- to produce the extra needed to cover the time
away from home.
We did not expect any psychological
advantage over formula at all. The kids all turned out fine and
enjoyed reasonably good health in their infancy and early childhood.
Possibly better than average, but it's hard to tell, and impossible to
tell if the cause had anything to do with breast feeding.
We
chose breast feeding over formula because people are biological
mechanisms, and breast milk has evolved with people over the ages to
serve a certain purpose. We believed then and continue to believe that
it is best for children. There are no issues with contaminated or
chlorinated water, no worries that the formula is not correct.
There is evidence of a number of physical advantages for breast fed
children, and why wouldn't parents want what is best for their
offspring? We continue to believe that formula is appropriate for
that portion of women, about 5% or so, for whom breast feeding doesn't
work.
If breast-feeding makes some women feel closer to their
children, fine-- that can only be considered a good thing. But breast
feeding, besides being the least expensive, most portable option
available-- remains the best option because of the long term advantages
demonstrated for children's health.