So if I decide to do it the "right" way and adopt, one of those homeless parentless children will just be handed to me? I won't have to impoverish myself through years of legal wrangling to the point where I may jeapordize the little one's standard of living? That sounds improbably utopian to me.

I'm sorry to hear that you believe your assumptions about other people's future reproductive plans justifies your being rude. I think it's sad that "pre-existing" children, adopted or not, are exposed to as much rudeness as is the norm in our society. What good can that do? More likely to foster yet another generation of boors; just what we need!