if i wasn't married now, i'd wait to have paris. ppl are having "mind blowing sex" at all ages. waiting til you find someone to do it with, and you're in a place in life where the consequences of it aren't gonna seriously change (i hate to say "ruin") your plans for the rest of your life, is ideal. to say something is wrong with ppl who wait disgusts me. just b/c you took the first bus out, doesn't mean that EVERYONE has to do it, or even consider doing it.