WHAT?! i'm sad for you, if this is what you think of virgins. i know PLENTY who are VERY HAPPY with their status in life and they aren't religious nuts, or even religious at all! they would much rather concentrate on their own lives, b/c, well, gosh darnit, there is MORE TO LIFE THAN HAVING SEX! OR EVEN BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP! virigins have lives like the rest of us. and i think they're alot more clearheaded then some of their non virgin counterparts. they don't have to think about whether or not they're at risk for an an STD or unplanned pregancy b/c of what they did with some person last night. they don't have to worry if that guy or gal thinks they're a slut for putting out when they did or uptight b/c they didn't put out soon enough. they don't have to worry about rumors that can spread around b/c they were seen with someone somewhere acting as if they were doing something that they had no business doing. they don't have to worry if mommy or daddy will be disappointed in them for having sex or getting pregant b/c of the expectations they have for them. they DO have to worry about passing class, getting a job and being on time for work every day, paying their bills, etc. it's a pretty carefree exsistance. and to only be "saving themselves for marriage" is STOOPID! no matter when or where or with whom they lose their virginity, there's a pretty good chance that when the time comes, they'll have a better relationship with the person b/c they weren't so caught up in keeping up with the status quo of NOT being a virgin. they were more concerned about how the relationship will benefit them from all corners and how they can contribut to it. i think society would be better off if we weren't all caught up in having sex all the time. at least then maybe, just maybe we'd be better able to think things through and a be a bit more clearheaded about it. we all know what happens to guys who think with their penis and women who think that spreading their legs will benefit them with something far greater than an orgasm. yeah, those virigins are on to something. the rest of us just need to catch up. :)