SusanM:

Am I really the only one that sees a major difference between hair and boobs?

That is just the easiest comparison in something that is an attempt to be more attractive. I would expect the same thing if the woman got a facelift, tummy tuck, or butt lift.

SusanM:

Boobs are sexual objects. They are my sexual object in my case, they are the LW's sexual object in her case. If you could make out the outline of a vibrator in somebody's backpack, how comfortable would you be striking up a conversation about it?.... Unfortunately, especially with large boobs, their outline is always visible.

There a lot of things that could look like a vibrator through a backpack, but if she was wearing it around her neck, I would definitely have an urge to find out why. anyway, the vibrator isn't even close to the same thing. Now, if she had a huge 18" double headed dildo sticking out through the zipper on her pack after she had only had a small bullet vibe on her keychain..... What was I saying?

SusanM:

Yes, there are girls out there that get a boob job and flaunt it everywhere, wanting attention from anybody and everybody. Fine. But it doesn't sound like the original LW wanted the attention or she wouldn't have wrote in and asked how to stop it.

It just sounds like this was an attempt to boost self-esteem that backfired. Now she is regretting it. It is much easier for her to lash out at others than to admit that the mistake was hers.