I was wrong on the diagnosis, but...
by
Jaymz the Pooh
03/28/2008, 11:23 AM
I think I am still right on the solution of talking to her.
Jaymz the Pooh:
3) Nasty (but not in a good way) Fiancée:
There are two possibilities that this guy is looking at. Either she has a self-esteem issue, or she is just an arguer. He should definitely try talking to her about how he feels when she treats him like that. She may not even realize that she is doing it. She may or may not change, but he can cross that bridge when it comes.
If I had used my brain at all on this, I would have said that it was her passive-agressive way of telling him she is not happy with him (I guess that's what happens when I do these on my lunch break). Maybe he has been doing something to belittle her in some way. Maybe she is just like the overeducated Fray poster last week who asked about her "not-as-intelligent, lower class" boyfriend. He could guess about her motivation for days, but the only way to know for sure is through good solid communication.