kitty . . . . are you reading what you wrote? Are you from out of space? I agree that there are some women out there that very well may be getting pregnant on purpose so they can stay home . . . . but more so on welfare, because as much as I would LOVE to be an at home mother (and just because I want to be home with my children) I HAVE to work full time to help pay for the necessities of life. How dare you insinuate such a thing that a woman who stays home with her children only had children so they COULD stay home? That's ludicrous!