bravo!! I believe you have hit the nail directly on the head; it takes more than 1 person to raise a child. That does not however mean that it has to be a married couple. It can be 2 friends, multiple family members, lovers of varying gender identities...it takes more than 1 and there is no reason to think that only a married couple qualify. Out of wedlock births are not the problem; births by people without an invested support system are.