Tell it like it is!!! I am the product of an unwed mother, and it was not easy when I was growing up, as much as she tried.

If someone thinks that it is a sacrifice to stay married to someone who doesn't make your heart skip a beat anymore, try the sacrifice of trying to find childcare when you're working, keeping tabs solo on a teenager's social circle while making sure that he/she does well in school, and paying on your own the expenses a child incurs when those debts could be shared - as a lot of babydaddies are lousy when it comes to child support.