Well, I'd hardly claim to be a master, let alone a professor, of philosophy. So, we would likely get all tangled up in each other's blindspots and areas of ignorance while we each charged ahead in the sectors we knew something about - likely corresponding to places the other knew nothing.
I never suggested that parents should cut their children off from the reasoning of science, nor frankly do I believe that they wholly could. At the same time, I feel that parents have the unique right and duty to educate their children in the manner they feel is best until the child is independent of them.
And no, I don't think that a spartan system in which children become communal property immediately is wise or excellent. It isn't what hitchens would recommend either. Hitchens and his fellows actually recommends that parents become puppets of the majority (or perhaps the elite, when the majority doesn't agree with Hitchens; or of Hitchens, when all else fails...) such that the parents are forced to support and care for their children but are also barred from caring for their children as they feel is best in the areas of education, particularly religious education.
I don't think it could be made more clear that there is a vein of oppression hitting the surface in Hitchens, and that he is taking an already dangerous slippery slope (the steady expansion of the definition of child abuse) over the top and around the bend to territory that would horrify any of the early pioneers in liberalism.
Here you are enabling that by suggesting that some sort of indelible harm is done a child when parents are able to teach religion.
I can see the consistency in your mind - and I have no doubt that you have taught your children as you saw fit. As much as I feel they may have been given an excellent and incredible education in some areas, I can't help but think that there are other areas I might have hoped would be instructed differently - and you probably feel that I should have been educated differently. Oh well. It only becomes tyranny when I force you to educate in a way you feel is harmful.
Finally - the ultimate topic that perhaps causes all the trouble? I view it as a problem of scale. Science has found 'magic' at all sorts of scales. Strange things happen over long periods of time, at very small spatial scales, in blinks of an eye, and at the level of the universe. Every time we think we have something fixed, some unbreakable rule - that works for organisms, say - we find that an emerging property sorta violates it at the scale of the community, or seemingly contradicts it at the level of the gene.
I teach my students all the time - scale matters!
Even if statistics is reasonably predictive for this or that, it may not hold as a good model for everything. Uniformitarianism also only means that as far as the eye can see, the same rules seem to apply.
I do science, I understand science - and perhaps some day science will be able to deal with the full range of extant phenomena, but ... that day isn't now. We can't even figure out migraines and other kinds of headaches... as much as we figure out neurons.
Even if 'secular objectivism' were to triumph at the moment and temporarily in our culture, that doesn't say much more about what 'is truth' than the rise of Zeus in BC 6000 or so, when a prior pantheon was replaced by the olympians, partly because science is always changing in what it says we should believe.
As for this thread, it too is too cumbersome =/ See you on another one, I'm sure.