Re: Gender Issue Lives On as Clinton Hopes Dim
by
LaurieAnnM
05/20/2008, 10:35 PM #
blueshift:
Hello Jeqal, and other Hillary supporters,
Although I disagree with pretty much all of your interpretations, I can at least understand why you would believe most of what you do. What I can't understand is your last two sentences here.
"Obama has been the worst at this also, I feel as if he is some throw back from the 50s. His choice of a wife is pretty indicative of how stupid he thinks women are."
I mean she is obviously very intelligent, talented, and successful and independent. I know she's made some statements that cause people to question her patriotism, but I hope that you understand blind patriotism is not such a great attribute. So, what is wrong with her? More, what about him "choosing her" (as if she didn't also choose him) indicates a low opinion of him.
As for the other part of your statement, how specifically has he been the worst. If not the worst, how has he himself demonstrated a lack of respect for women ("sweetie" flap I know, but disagree with you about probably).
Oh and tangentially, I think most male news anchors are pretty dumb and chosen for looking good on tv also.
Regards,
Blueshift
Thanks for being so thoughtful earlier today, Blueshift and congratulations on Obama's big win in Oregon tonight!
Even though most of this post was addressed to jegal ..I know you have these questions so I'll do my best with them if I can...I really can't say or know for sure what she means exactly about the 1950s' reference but I'm guessing she might mean it all seems like so much of the mass conformity mind set of the 1950;s
That mass conformity was actually what we as the old 1960s generation rebelled against so strongly.
People forget. They think it was all about just the Viet Nam War and sex drugs and rock n roll but the very early impetus and bit anger among the boomers was this fight against mass conformity to one mind-set we saw in our parents lives.You know we fought for Free Thinking and to get away from the old 9-5 mass conformity lifestyle.
That's what some may be thinking again today when they see people just seeming to jump on board en masse the next new thing:Obama..with what seems to some of us very little scrutiny or concern about any questions that may arise in regards to him.The idea of just mass following along of one guy. He's just a guy, at the end of the day. See? It looks frightening to some of us when we see this sort of mass worship like adoration of just a guy,Obama.
It just seems a bit over the top, that's all.
But to you it must seem wonderful, I can imagine, because you believe in what he is saying what you hear you think is great...and he is pulling huge crowds and his supporters are dedicated so I bet he will win. And I just hope he's all you hope for. I do of course. I do want what's best for my country.
I just hope it is.
After tonight I assume he will win now in the general. So, really you and no one else should worry about the very few dems that won't vote for him..I'm sure they mostly all will get on board with Obama.
So not to fret.
Who knows although I think I won't change my mind..who knows..things never stay the same...anything can happen.
On Michelle's patriotism statements..those didn't bother me too much after I thought about it. At first it did but really she probably just meant this all surprised her that so many middle Americans would vote for her husband. Nothing wrong with that.
The 'sweetie' flap showed desperation on the Hillary Camps' front because come on..it wasn't that big a deal..I often find myself using honey and sweetie to cashiers and such and then often do think to myself, "oh dear that must sound a bit condescending" and I vow not to repeat it but then still do at times when I'm rushed..so that was no big deal either.
I hope jegal comes back soon and maybe she can tell me if I was close to what she meant. For all I know she was thinking along a different angle on that.
That's kind of how I thought what she meant though.
I don't know if any of that helps,blueshift...but looks like things are going very well for Obama..so I don't think any few who still are just not sure about things should worry you.
You seem like a good guy..wishing you all the best whatever happens.
Thanks for being patient today.