Hey Horndog (Bedroom, USA) antidepressants are notorious for supressing libido and often have constipation as another side effect. Not sexy. So this ideal woman of yours is working long hours, and so depressed she has to take medication, yet still you make love 2-3 times a week. That's pretty damn good. Maybe she wouldn't need those relaxing massages if you took a bit more tender loving care of her in the bedroom.