Being a misogynist within the culture of rap and modern R&B (with a few exceptions) is far from a handicap it is a requirement. The exalted male identity is one of a violent, uncaring, heartless conqueror of both his occupational rivals and sexual conquests. Everything and everyone whether laws, society, friends, family, girlfriends, lovers, etc., are expendable objects to be obtained, controlled, and/or discarded as necessary for the dominating male ego's success.