Generation, gender, and cookie-baking
by
Sawbones
05/20/2008, 2:44 PM #
There was a moment in your post when you alluded to one of the article's most cogent insights, and I thought you were going to make a connection at last. Alas, it was not to be. I am referring to
"The conversation Mrs. Clinton spurred among women, however, seemed newer and more surprising. Her candidacy split Democratic women, not to mention prominent feminists. (Last week, the abortion-rights group Naral Pro-Choice America endorsed Mr. Obama, setting off protest from other women’s groups.) The cleft was largely along generational lines, with older women who had waged their own battles showing more solidarity and younger ones arguing that voting for a male candidate over a female one was itself a sign of progress and confidence."
This is the thing that has been coming back over and over again, but you don't seem to see it: it's not a gender issue, so much as a generational issue. My wife is a pediatric oncologist, about as strong-minded a woman as you will ever meet, and she supports Obama. My sister-in-law, VP of a large national corporation at 30 years old, does as well - and volunteered extensively for his campaign in Texas. While both of them agree that some of the coverage on Clinton has been out of bounds (the pantsuit thing especially is about as stupid a topic of discussion as I've heard), neither feels that she has been a target due to her gender any more than Obama has for his race.
Ultimately, it is the earlier generation of women, the ones who more often had to fight the more overt battles of feminism, who see Clinton as being under attack, and I suspect that this is simply a reflection of a mental paradigm already long-established. My wife and sister-in-law support Obama, not because his policies are that different from Clinton's (they obviously are not), but because he offers a different paradigm and different worldview of politics and its possibilities. Clinton talks in the language of combat and struggle, the natural language of someone whose life experience was centered around large quantities of both. Her worldview re: feminism is not that different from that of Jeremiah Wright with regard to racism - he grew up as part of a generation that confronted a much more severe and much more pervasive phenomenon of racism, so he sees it hiding under every rock and in every shadow. Obama, like my wife and sister-in-law, has the advantage of having grown up with wider possibilities and less sense of restriction, and this allows him to speak in terms of consensus and conciliation. And like it or not, this is language that an awful lot of people are thirsting for after sixteen years of acrimony under Bill Clinton and George W. Bush.
This exchange later in this thread sums it up well:
His choice of a wife is pretty indicative of how stupid he thinks women are.
------------Damn, jegal..That last line is amazing revealing food for thought about him for real! Great call!
The idea that you can somehow try to take his choice of an intelligent, successful, opinionated woman for a wife, and turn that choice into an indication that he thinks women are "stupid"? This is where combativeness goes over the edge into surreality, and the speaker of words like these loses all credibility with people like my wife and sister-in-law (not to mention me). And this kind of thinking and language has been all too common from Clinton supporters as they saw her early lead evaporating.
Interestingly, while my wife and sister-in-law gravitated to Obama because of his language of bipartisanship and cooperation, my mother (the only woman in her law school graduating class in the late 60's) drifted away from Hillary because, if anything, she was too Republican - she felt that Clinton was too occupied with triangulating herself into position for a presidential run, and not strong enough in standing up to Bush over the war (among other issues). And that is really where the "media conspiracy" against Clinton breaks down - the major outlets were in her corner initially (as has been pointed out elsewhere in this thread), and only backed away after her poorly-run campaign began to come apart at the seams. To try and cite the NYT as a "shill" for Obama is a particularly ripe load of nonsense, considering they endorsed her early and reconsidered only after her tone became increasingly antagonistic as she fell behind in the race.
The other aspect of the media "conspiracy" that Clinton supporters tend to ignore is the fact that she is paying the price for not heeding the basic laws of political nature. The media loves McCain because he gives them access and he gives them good quotes - he essentially makes their job easier. They like Obama for similar reasons. But from day one, Hillary ran her campaign with a high level of distrust and distaste for the media; not terribly surprising considering how she witnessed them treating her husband's presidency, but something she should have known she had to get past. If there was media bias in Obama's favor (and in some outlets there certainly was, although I would argue that others like CNN and the NYT were slanted in favor of Clinton), it was not as pervasive as you folks like to claim, and it was largely because she refused to play the game as she fully knew it was played.