I've read some of the feminist blogs and I can't help but feel like they're missing the point entirely. Ms. Bowen being able to desribe her experience as rape to a jury can't heal the wounds she's having to endure.
I've read the posts on this site and other blogs and I can't help but feel like people are concerned about our system of justice but fail to understad the facts of this case. Ms. Bowen can't desribe what happened to her in graphic detail nor in any other terms that would convey what happened because as she stated during her interviews with police and at trial, she doesn't remember.
Sadly, her role in her own trial has been reduced 2 critial facts; A) She woke up with the defendent on top of her penetrating her vagina at which time she asked him to stop and he did; and B) She drank enough to black out which she can in turn argue meant she was incapable of consenting to sex which she can in turn argue should have been obvious to the defendant which leads us to a discussion as to how drunk you have to be in order to no longer be able to consent to sex. That would be an interesting conversation indeed and from what I can tell, it's the only relevant factor left undecided in this case but I can't see how such a standard would be set much less measured in a court of law after the fact based on merely the testimony of the complaintant and defendant.
I think that despite my disagreement with the judge's decision, I have to say the most intelligent comment I've read that seems particularly appropriate for this case was from Sbrak in stating "...this man is on trial, and if his verdict could depend on the use of the word "rape," then I would say there's a problem with the evidence."