Re: Gender Issue Lives On as Clinton Hopes Dim
by
LaurieAnnM
05/20/2008, 12:38 PM #
Yes, I do,FOJ. It really is about the girls and also the fact that I have a real strong sense that Hillary would do wonders to bring the country back into some good working order and also knows how to handle the Military and has deep understanding about all of the issues.
But on the 'girls' factor and if it really matters to me..oh, yes, it sure does. Deeply matters to me.
Cute story to maybe illustrate it a bit: I have an adorable beautiful 14 year old grand daughter who lives in New York with my daughter, in my home town of birth.
And recently my own mother related to me how she was over at her house and the little neighbor boy came by and they got into discussing the election in passing, like kids do. the boy said he wanted Obama and my grand daughter said,"uh uh" "Not this time', And the boy said,' why not?' And she said,"It's not his turn.'It's Hillary's turn".
It just was so sweet and warmed my heart so. This was a few months back when there was a thin ray of hope for Clinton.
I know what that feeling is behind her cute remarks.Because I am a woman.
I know.
If you're not a woman I can't explain it better but to say it's a brave little face that really doesn't quite believe it could ever happen that the big guys will ever let 'girls' be truly equal but you're going to put on your assertive, litttle, brave face and stand up and say, she can do it anyway.
It does matter to me that my grand daughter believes she can be as equal intellectually to any man and be given that respect without patronization or abuse for expressing her own intelligence .
I am just glad that today a woman actually did get as far as HRC did and she really did have a genuine chance.
That's good.
That's very good.
As far as Obama..I would have voted for him early on. The Wright thing changed all that.
As far as the Michelle issue goes ..I was impressed by jegal's remarking on it because I too had thought something along the same lines as she did, but from a different angle and way of looking at his choice of a wife.So it struck me as interesting that she mentioned that factor.
I am addicted to analyzing things and situations to the 'nth degree. But this is a complex issue that I will try and get back to you on and write more about at another time.Have too much going on here today.
But,basically the my take on it has more to do with his own words about his upbringing and his 'white grandmother" and his choice of pastor and his use of the words'bitter' to describe white blue collar types. Often when people use certain words to describe others it is really a projection of their own very flawed selves they actually reveal.
Anyway for many reasons, Obama and his wife do not fill me with a sense that they are without large areas a deep bitterness and hidden resentments.
That bothers me. Call it a 'gut check'.
The more I learn about him the less I feel comfortable about him.
And I really liked him on first blush. That changed.
Thx for your interesting reply though.