the world's most thankless job
by
deborafromreno
07/01/2008, 9:19 PM #
I have been in the childcare field for nearly 9 years, working mainly in preschool, but I have also worked with 2-year olds and school-aged children in California and here in Nevada. I have worked in corporate-run centers as well as small, sole-proprietor centers. This business really is a thankless one. Not that I need parents thanking me on a daily basis (would be nice...), but even people in general don't seem to appreciate or understand the care, love, attention and time it takes to run a preschool classroom. There are boards to make, books to mend, art projects to prepare, books to read, circle times to run, songs to sing, games to play, endless bubbles to blow, balls to throw, towers to look at when a child says, "Look what I made!", soiled clothes to change, meals and snacks to prepare, classrooms to clean, classes to take to further my education, learning centers to organize and skills to teach children that will last them a lifetime. There are even some things I do at home, like sew dress-up clothes. Parents seem upset when they have to participate in something at daycare, like a pot luck or Parent Night( and don't give me any grief over this--I'm a single mom, and I got into this field mainly to pay less for child care, but I found myself barely making enough to pay for my childcare. I just stayed in it since its actually very rewarding working with children). When I tell someone what I do for a living, all I get is a sad and mournful, "Oh...", followed by silence and a quick change of subject, or even someone asking when I'm going to get a real job. I guess my job isnt as important as teaching at a "real school"--think K-12. I'm the one that teaches shapes, colors, how to share with others, use their words, and chew with their mouth closed before they even get to elementary school, you know.
Maybe someone will read this post and think, "You know, I never really thought about how hard it is to be a preschool teacher." I hope a parent with a child in a daycare center will tell their child's teacher, "Thank you," when she washes a soiled pair of clothes, even though she didn't have to--or just because she's your child's teacher. I hope a parent will decide that the woman (most likely the case) that cares for their child is worth a small gift or card at holiday time. Remember, this woman is the one that takes care of your child for much of the day (we're talking 8 hours or more--there are kids that come before I get to work and leave after my 8-hour shift is over) doesn't she deserve a little recognition now and then? I hope a government worker reads this and tries to lobby for more education for child care workers, and pay to go with it if you get more education. I also hope that a parent that is considering putting her child in daycare will understand that its a harder job to take care of more than one child--all with different personalities--and will see that rather than what its going to cost to send their child to daycare.
Thanks for letting me rant a little...now, where's my spa treatment?!