you know, i've always wondered why a girl who was raised in a situation as you describe would allow herself to repeat the cycle instead of working like hell to be the ONE in her family to END it.
same thing with starving africans that i see on tv... now these people have NOTHING... not a roof over their heads, a drop of water to drink, a bite of food or a rag to wear but sure has shit they will spread thier legs begging for even more misery to befall them. next thing you know they are carrying the lifeless swollen baby they've delivered to a hospital crying for help. they KNEW they had nothing to offer a child WHY OH WHY allow the cylce to continue???
i'm actually seriously questioning this logic... not throwing this out to provoke